It’s the most confusing thing in the world!

I mean he broke up with you... he said it’s over... and yet your phone never stops going off. You get message after message, at all different times, and no matter what you do, your ex won’t stop texting you!

Exboyfriend Keeps Texting

So what does it mean? Does he still love you? Want to be with you? Is he just looking for sex?

Well to tell the truth, it could easily be a combination of all of those things. Guys will be guys, and even after the breakup they will sometimes mess with your mind. On purpose? To hurt you? Probably not. But that’s just what he’s doing when your ex boyfriend keeps sending you text messages after the breakup.

One of the things you need to remember is this: if your ex is still texting you, it means he’s not fully over you yet. Now this doesn’t mean he’s ready to get back together - not by a long shot - but it does mean that the path leading back into your former relationship isn’t completely wiped away.

In other words: the door is still open.

At this point, what you do next is crucial. There are some HUGE MISTAKES you can make when your ex contacts you after he breaks up with you, and you’ll want to avoid every last one of them. The more of them you make, the easier it will be for him to forget you. Get over you. Let you go...

An ex boyfriend will text you for sex.

An ex boyfriend will text you for company.

An ex boyfriend will text you because he misses you.

Most of all, an ex boyfriend will text you because he’s thinking about you. And this is the most important thing to think about if you still want a relationship and are actively trying to get him back. Your ex is lonely, and you caught him at a vulnerable time.

He’s messaging you to make contact - he’s reaching out - and the way you handle that contact will determine whether or not you can eventually reconnect and rekindle the sparks of your past relationship.

Ex Boyfriend Texts You for Sex

One of the more popular things that’ll happen after a break up is that your ex will get horny. Yes, horny. He’ll be lying there one night and thinking about you sexually, and his penis will remind his brain that you’re still into him. And hey, wouldn’t it be nice to hook up with her? Even just “one more time?” Even if it “means nothing?”

This is why hooking up with an ex RIGHT after the break up is a bad idea... because 99% of the time, it will mean nothing. Sorry, but no matter how good you are in bed or what you have to offer, the second your ex boyfriend finishes having sex with you he’s going to be looking for the quickest, most efficient escape plan. Nothing you can do - or perform in bed - is going to suddenly convince him to stay with you for the pure sexual ecstacy of being together.

No, you have to connect with him on a more intimate level. There are ways of reminding your ex about what the two of you had together, and not just sexually. Learning these is a crucial part of reuniting with your exboyfriend for good, and not just for a one-night stand.

Your Ex Keeps Texting You Just to Talk

“Just because we broke up doesn’t mean we can’t stop talking to each other...”

Sound familiar? If it does, you’re in trouble. Because while it’s a good sign that your exboyfriend still wants to communicate with you, the bad news is he’s using text messaging as a crutch... while he limps away from the relationship.

Wanna get back with him? You have to kick that crutch out from under him. It’s the only way of making him miss you enough to get him back. The more you talk to him through text messages, the easier it will be for him to let you go. Why? Because he still has your company.

Now, there are certain things you should be doing when your ex texts you. And some of these might seem counter-productive! But as strange as they are, they’re going to create an environment in which your boyfriend NEEDS you again. And that’s the most important part when it comes to getting him back.

Handling Text Messages Correctly

So what happened when your former boyfriend texted you? Did you respond to him? Did you reply right away? How many messages did you send, and did he ask you to call him?

The answers to these questions are important. After a break up, there’s a window of opportunity where the two of you can get back together. Yes, ANY break up. Yes, even if he pushed you away, said the feelings are ‘gone’, and yes, even if it looks like he found someone else.

That window of opportunity is your one chance. Your singular opportunity to get things right. Make the wrong moves here, and you’re sunk. But make the right ones... and you can start on the path to reconciliation.

There are 12 destructive mistakes you can make when trying to get an ex boyfriend back. Learn what they are, so you can avoid making as many of them as possible, or even all 12 of them, if your boyfriend happened to just break up with you.

Time is of the essence here, because some of these mistakes you may have made already.

The more of them you’ve committed, the harder it will be to win him back. Which means the earlier you get started, the easier things will be. And the quicker you can be back in your boyfriend’s arms again.

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